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To find the one woman who is to be taken seriously. That is the real challenge underneath empty promises and false statements. To write a first letter with copy paste to many is easy. But to find the one who honestly chooses US in particular, who openly states “Yes, I want YOU” and not just any man or any woman to fulfill such role and such dream…That is part of the initial challenge which is already hard from the start. But then who´s got it in to reach out for a strong communication? Yes, no one wants to write endlessly and not have a real meeting at last. But when this is like the chicken and the egg and what comes first… How can anyone proceed for a real meeting if persons here do not want to give their personal information, phone numbers to chat directly, make video calls and strengthen the development of the ongoing relationship after the initial period of 15 opened letters? How can any meeting in person takes place if things have not been properly set in the right order and place, to make such expenses and plan for a real meeting in person? Do woman really choose the man they seem to be wanting the attention from in the first place? And do they take into consideration the country they will be living in? Do they think beforehand of the challenge that lays ahead after the first meeting when things turn ok, that because of dating internationally and people cannot meet periodically afterwards, that they have to make an important decision to move abroad with the man without too much hesitation? And of course, such are supposed to be the given and the implicit agreements of being here dating like this!
Otherwise please, do not write...
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