Dating with Juha (JuhaHelsinki) from Helsinki, Finland

I have already been in Ukraine, Vinnytsia 12 times because of bringing donations to your brave Army. I will continue regular visits, so we will be able to meet live pretty soon. Next trips will be in middle of October and New Year. I want to meet in real life, not just write.

2023 I was dating with one local woman. Her only disadvantage was lacking common language. This is why I expect you to have at least intermediate level in English or German.

According to this experience and several tens of people I have met in Ukraine, I believe my character is clearly more near to Ukrainian than Finnish. This is the basic reason for me to be active in this site.

My energy level is pretty high, I am used to doing what I want. I am completely monogamic, have been for all of my life.

I am not expecting you to move to Finland, although it is also possible. What happens between us is negotiable, we are anyhow two adults.

I am not sportive at all, although I am slim and in pretty good fit. But that of course does not prohibit you from being like that!

My character is pretty calm, although impulsive. I am good in organizing matters and keeping them organized. My education is engineer, although I think it only proves what my character is born to be.

If is promise something, I keep it. No babbling.

Please note that my incomes are below Finnish average. I am not rich according to our standards. I also strongly dislike wasting money. That is different from using it, because for using there should always be a proper, defined reason.

I have three main hobbies. First and most important is of course Ukraine.

Second is Finnish Punk museum, Punkmuseo. It is dedicated to preserving punk culture and having exhibitions and gigs.

Third is Events for singles, Sinkkutapahtumat. I am other of its two founders. It was founded 2019 and its mailing list has currently several thousand members. But despite my visibility and efforts there, I am still single.

I also read quite a lot books, listen to rock music (you know, starts with one-two-three-four and then guitar) and visit gigs and do also some less important things.

I divorced 2017. From that marriage I have a son, who is 2 weeks with me and 2 weeks with his mother. He is born 2008.

That was my second divorce. First happened 1998 and from it I have no children.

Two first photos are from summer 2023. Third is Spring 2024 and fourth and fifth July 2024.

I expect we can communicate in real life. Therefore you must have at least intermediate ability in English or German. It means you should be able to write your messages by yourself, not via translator. I write my texts directly in English.

I also expect you not to be so young that you could be my daughter. It is not realistic to believe that a 30 yo goddess would be really interested of me so that we could be happy together. But I have nothing against you being older than me, just in case you have not decided to be and act as grandma.

Third is that my home harbour in Ukraine is Vinnytsia. If you are located over 500km from there or are not eager to come to Vinnytsia to meet me, then we probably will not meet.

Fourth are your mental abilities. You must have self-esteem, because without it we will not be able to respect each other. And respect is most important point in happy relationship. Or at least I believe so. Self-esteem can be seen for example in making decisions in your life independently.
I also expect you to be adult, intelligent and willing to talk about anything, especially feelings. I am not looking for a subject, but an equal and loving partner.

I have already written here several hundreds of messages. I try to answer everybody writing me. But please keep in mind that if you do not fulfill conditions mentioned above, I probably will not pay for opening your letters.

I am Man, so I want to grant you the possibility to be a Woman. I want to pamper and be kind to you to make you feel you really are my Queen.

I have no special requirements for your looks. More important is that you feel good in your body and you carry it with pride. A fact is that I am not especially handsome, so it is not fair to expect me to get Miss Ukraine (although that would of course be nice).